The Importance of Choosing Your Friends

Hi everyone.

It's been a long time since I have written a post. Now I have had a lot going on but recently I went to the Tony Robbins, Robert Kiyosaki and Donald Trump seminar in the city at the Melbourne Exhibition Centre. Now while I was there I really had a change in perception because I have always believed in certain things like that thinking positive is logical and while thinking negative is illogical but it wasn't until I heard that Tony Robbins that is was good to hear someone else who is a very accomplished individual say those words.

Now the while it is hard to stay positive it is even harder to stay positive especially when the people around you such as your friends as family try to bring you down. Now unfortunately for you can't choose your family but you can choose your friends.

Now at the seminar on the second day which was a 3 day seminar, Kim Kiyosaki got up to speak and she said something very interesting. Your need to make sure that your friends are very supportive of what you do. She has her own group of friends that are all entrepreneurial women and they all support each other and this is very important because staying positive is a lot easier when you have the support of individual than when all the people around you are negative individuals it's hard to stay positive.

Now while I am not saying you should abandon your old friends(well the negative ones) but if your around a group of negative people it might be good to find another group of friends that are more positive about what you do but sometimes negative people are just very insecure about themselves and they will possibly use the excuse of mentoring or possibly the excuse that they are just realists but keep in mind how can anyone know what your truly capable of. So many people in history have risen to greatness when they have been said that they will never amount to nothing listen Albert Einstein who's elementary teacher told them just that.

People who think they know everything and they know as to what extent your capable of doing something are arrogant and stupid as what sort of a moron would profess to know just what a person can do and how the future would unfold.

Now while I am not saying you should believe delusional things like you can fly and not listen to anyone who says otherwise(unless your possibly a mad scientist at which point you probably won't listen anyway) but what I am saying is that people who think being negative is logical are just plain dumb because what is the point of focusing on what you can't do or the negative when you get nothing from it. In life staying positive means forward motion and constantly improving yourself while being negative means living in fear and worrying about what could go wrong and doing nothing so you tell me which one makes more sense.

Let me reiterate this one to make it quite clear. If you think being negative is a sign of intelligence or logical then you are a dumbass. How can you possibly win in anything whether it is a chess game, romance, sport, finance or anything else if you believe your already going to lose before you start. Positive thinking is an intelligent and logical response to problem solving in anything it just makes no sense to be negative now while you should always be aware of risks well they can managed.

So just one more time if you think being negative is intelligent then your a dumbass. A stupid idiotic imbecilic dumbass. And by the way if you think that I am wrong then you should listen to Tony Robbins because he himself said that being negative is being stupid so if you disagree with me then your a dumbass.

Remember that "if it will be, then it is up to me".

By the way I just recently picked up my copy of The Midas Touch by Donald Trump and Robert Kiyosaki and for $30 bucks it is an awesome read even if your not a entrepreneur as it's lessons on going what you want after in life are very important.

Do you know what your worth in this world?

The answer to the above question is everything. You are as great or mundane as you choose to be in this world. If you want a better life but don't have one then that's because you haven't done anything to get it. But I am going off on a tangent here so let me return to the main topic.

A lot of people with confidence issues or individuals that are very negative are often like that because they have very little self worth. They don't truly understand what they are worth. True confidence comes from knowing what you are worth in this world and what you have to offer and what everyone should realise is that they are all worth something in this world even the shy ones.

So because of this you should never let anyone make you feel like you don't deserve anything or that you aren't good enough when compared to anyone else. Even if the people around you don't tell you what your worth or even if they put you down you should always remember that you are stronger and better than what everyone else says. I you think like a champion then you will become a champion. It all begins with your mindset. If you think negative you will always have only see the bad things in life and if you think positive you will be able to see the possibilities and it's better to look at what you can do with this world than what you can't.

You are worth whatever you think your worth so if you want to make the people around you see what your worth you first need to make yourself see that your worth something.